Things are getting a Little better.

So I've been here about three weeks now and I have to admit things are getting a lot better. I owe it all to my good friends Luke and Kara though. They have made things so much easier on me, wether it be letting me stay at there house or forcing me out of the house they put my mind at ease! I use to hang out with them in tech school and as soon as I got here it was like we never parted everything was the same. Kara was in my basic flight and also My roommate in Tech school. Lets just say Im very thankful to have them. On another note, I got the keys to my Apartment on base today! I was so excited I can't wait to decorate and finally have a place I can call my own!! Tomorrow I move out of my house and I am extremely excited to get out of there that place does nothing but scare the bajeebus out of me! I am getting so close to going back to the states to visit my family and be with my husband and I CANNOT WAIT. This past weekend I went to the "K-Club" with Luke and Kara and there friend Scott and man was it terrible, not the club its self but the fact that everyone and everything reminded me of Cody. I kept double taking and it just made me miserable! I just know not to do that!! When i get into my apartment Ill make sure to post pictures but at the moment I don't really have anything so I'm staying with Luke and Kara, I just wanted to keep you posted. Ill most likely post again after I get back Happy Holidays!!!

I miss you.

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens. A good marriage must be created. In the Art of Marriage, the little things are the big things. It is never being too old to hold hands. It is remembering to say ‘I love you’ at least once a day. It is never going to sleep angry. It is at no time taking the other for granted; the courtship should not end with the honeymoon; it should continue through all the years. It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives. It is standing together facing the world. It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family. It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy. It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways. It is not expecting the husband to wear a halo or the wife to have the wings of an angel. It is not looking for perfection in each other. It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humor. It is having the capacity to forgive and forget. It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow. It is finding rooms for things of the spirit. It is a common search for the good and the beautiful. It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and obligation is reciprocal. It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner your my partner for life no matter how many deployments or separations. I love and miss you Cody Lee Crunelle.

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